My husband has mixed dementia - Vascular and Alzheimer’s- he was diagnosed earlier this year but has had worsening symptoms and noticeable memory loss for several years. We have ok days and upsetting ones. As his condition has worsened, he’s become very hostile and verbally abusive to me. He shouts and swears, comes at me with clenched fists and shoves into me. This week he’s hit me on the head with a magazine. These outbursts occur if I just have a different opinion to him on something quite trivial, or complain when he does something I asked him not to do - like cut back a houseplant I was trying to grow . He rarely apologises - and eventually the situation blows over and I have to ignore the hurt it has caused. We’ve been married over 51 years and he has many special talents and great qualities, but has always been quite volatile and competitive.
I feel sad for him but not sure how much more of this I can take.
Any ideas how I can improve the situation?
I feel sad for him but not sure how much more of this I can take.
Any ideas how I can improve the situation?