I guess I am just offloading. I haven't been here for a while. My mum has AD. I am focussed on fundraising and charity work for research but now mum has been in care since January I find it harder and harder when I thought it would get easier.
She is only 64. I keep thinking we should be shopping together, enjoying time together, instead I visit and leave with such sadness. I think she knows who I am but can't answer the question of who I am. She seems happier than she used to but the less I get from the visits the worse I feel.
It seems she is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing at night and not an hour goes past she isn't in my thoughts. It's really wearing. I feel guilty if I don't visit, guilty if I do and it's short, guilty for feeling sorry for myself but I just miss my mum and everyone else seems to be getting on with their lives and I feel her loss more each day.
It's not a question, it's just a share really.
She is only 64. I keep thinking we should be shopping together, enjoying time together, instead I visit and leave with such sadness. I think she knows who I am but can't answer the question of who I am. She seems happier than she used to but the less I get from the visits the worse I feel.
It seems she is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing at night and not an hour goes past she isn't in my thoughts. It's really wearing. I feel guilty if I don't visit, guilty if I do and it's short, guilty for feeling sorry for myself but I just miss my mum and everyone else seems to be getting on with their lives and I feel her loss more each day.
It's not a question, it's just a share really.