My wife took the call as I was out but I suspected they were talking about an EOL situation. They've had quite a bit of COVID in the care home so are a bit short staffed - when we turned up, the manager initially wasn't going to let us in until the nurse told her it was an end-of-life scenario.
He was much as he had been for a while. Looking very gaunt, although he's still eating and drinking. He looked comfortable, though, but he barely responded. He recognised me but making conversation was nigh on impossible. I read a letter from his friend that hadn't been opened but didn't see any reaction so don't know if he heard it or not.
It's sad, of course, and I know I'll have a huge amount of guilt for the way I've acted in the past combined with the grief for when the inevitable happens but I'm glad he's being looked after and doesn't seem to be in pain.
He was much as he had been for a while. Looking very gaunt, although he's still eating and drinking. He looked comfortable, though, but he barely responded. He recognised me but making conversation was nigh on impossible. I read a letter from his friend that hadn't been opened but didn't see any reaction so don't know if he heard it or not.
It's sad, of course, and I know I'll have a huge amount of guilt for the way I've acted in the past combined with the grief for when the inevitable happens but I'm glad he's being looked after and doesn't seem to be in pain.