Hi my Mum, 75, has vascular dementia with alzeimers and parkinsons, my Dad is her main carer with my brother and I helping and a care agency. We have two carers go in for an hour in the morning to wash mum and get her our of bed and dressed, then an hour at night to put her to bed. She can't do anything for herself any more, my brother and I help shower mum and get her to the toilet every day. My question is, does anyone have a positive story they can feedback about respite and a local to Northamptonshire facility? My Dad won't allow Mum to go into respite because of the possible disruption to her and the impact in may have on her health. My brother and I are keen for Dad to have a break but we both work and he's not had a real break for over a year since Mum became reliant totally on him, us and the carers.