Hi all, I've read some older posts and feel very stressed at the events of the last month. My mother 89 was living with her 90 year old partner who has been her main carer . A gradual deterioration of her mixed dementia culminating in falls/ UTI/ aggression towards partner and no support from community teams in managing any of it left me having to source respite which is now long term care. Once social workers knew she would be self funding they just said I could place her anywhere. I was shocked that she didn't need an assessment.
Since admittance to a nearby care home she absolutely hates it and constantly wants to go home and is much worse in the afternoon when all she talks about is wanting to kill herself. She has some insight but no acceptance.
I on the other hand feel terrible and the memory clinic are being obstructive in providing a letter to initiate LPA ( we already did this ) so that we can now take over her finances. Has anyone else dealt with this ?
Since admittance to a nearby care home she absolutely hates it and constantly wants to go home and is much worse in the afternoon when all she talks about is wanting to kill herself. She has some insight but no acceptance.
I on the other hand feel terrible and the memory clinic are being obstructive in providing a letter to initiate LPA ( we already did this ) so that we can now take over her finances. Has anyone else dealt with this ?