Hi!
I browsed some forum postings and thought, "This is a community I would like to be part of."
I took early retirement just over three years ago to support my ailing dad in caring for my mum. Mum has dementia.
My sister and I nursed our dad at home through the last three weeks of his life. He died on Easter Sunday. Now I have moved in with mum and am trying to help her come to terms with the loss of her partner of 60 years. She has no recollection of the last months. She does not remember dad's funeral. She has stopped searching for him and accepts that we say he has died. Yet still she routinely asks where he is, how he is, when we can go and see him etc.
What experience do other members have of loss and bereavement and what advice do you have?
I browsed some forum postings and thought, "This is a community I would like to be part of."
I took early retirement just over three years ago to support my ailing dad in caring for my mum. Mum has dementia.
My sister and I nursed our dad at home through the last three weeks of his life. He died on Easter Sunday. Now I have moved in with mum and am trying to help her come to terms with the loss of her partner of 60 years. She has no recollection of the last months. She does not remember dad's funeral. She has stopped searching for him and accepts that we say he has died. Yet still she routinely asks where he is, how he is, when we can go and see him etc.
What experience do other members have of loss and bereavement and what advice do you have?