Having no response from social service other than a call last November and have been caring for my wife for nearly two years, i deal with the constant challenges every day, my biggest issue is that I am on my own and can only leave the wife for short trips to the shops.. gone are the days out with friends. weekend away with my Scout Group, I can be woken at anytime of the night and spend ages trying to sort out a wet bed or telling her its the middle of the night and getting her back to bed (then i am up myself and cannot get back to sleep).