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Mum, 89 has vascular dementia. She had a fall on 3rd November and has been in hospital since. No broken bones just lost a lot of confidence. The hospital say she now needs full time care. I have been looking at care homes. Mum is just above the threshold and has a house to sell. Does anyone have any experience of annuities? Mum was diagnosed 4 years ago and is now quite thin and frail and had some delerium in hospital. The care home fees are so expensive. Mum doesn't want to go into a home and wants to leave the house to me but I have no option but to sell the house to fund her care. Mum has to be encouraged to eat, drink and she often refuses her medication. It's a nightmare. I am an only child and have no other relatives to discuss this with. It's a huge weight on my shoulders to do the right thing for me and Mum. Any advice would be great.
Mum, 89 has vascular dementia. She had a fall on 3rd November and has been in hospital since. No broken bones just lost a lot of confidence. The hospital say she now needs full time care. I have been looking at care homes. Mum is just above the threshold and has a house to sell. Does anyone have any experience of annuities? Mum was diagnosed 4 years ago and is now quite thin and frail and had some delerium in hospital. The care home fees are so expensive. Mum doesn't want to go into a home and wants to leave the house to me but I have no option but to sell the house to fund her care. Mum has to be encouraged to eat, drink and she often refuses her medication. It's a nightmare. I am an only child and have no other relatives to discuss this with. It's a huge weight on my shoulders to do the right thing for me and Mum. Any advice would be great.