Today 4th July is my 64th Wedding Anniversary. When my husband asked on changing his calendar [as he tries to remember to do every morning] 'is today Wednesday 3rd of July', I said yes. I felt I just couldn't face it, he had been very difficult and shouted he knew how to dress when I said he should put his vest on under his shirt amongst other things. Tomorrow I will just say it's the 5th and hopefully loose the 4th altogether. I just feel I don't want to face it, I can't explain why. I am starting to dislike him so much yet I feel responsible for him. I just can't sort out my feelings and feel so tearful all the time. I dare not cry in front of him he wouldn't understand, like he doesn't understand the pain my physical problems cause me. Yet it is me who has to do everything while he sits and watches TV. I have to turn it on and off, change the programmes and control the sound for him. He grumbles about it all the time saying either the programmes are meant for kids or he doesn't want to watch programmes with bad language, I try and find old films he likes then he just falls asleep and when he wakes can't follow the story. So he gets bored, his only hobby was his gardening but now he doesn't know a weed from a plant.
So everyday he wants me to take him out somewhere, I am so tired I just want to sit down and rest. Enough, I am so sorry to moan at all who read this but feel I must talk to someone.
So everyday he wants me to take him out somewhere, I am so tired I just want to sit down and rest. Enough, I am so sorry to moan at all who read this but feel I must talk to someone.