My mother used to be such a lovely lady but her behaviour has changed since having dementia.
Since breaking her hip, which has now healed, she refused to the exercises and now can't walk. Due to this, carers have go in four times a day to change her pads, prepare meals etc. Earlier this year, she went to the lounge but now she can't be bothered to even get out of bed. My main concern is the fact that she attacks the carers and me with her long nails. She doesn't understand that she needs to be changed, she screams at the carers, telling them to get out of her house. I had to grab her hands and cut them as low as possible yesterday. She took a few chunks out of me but I had to take the risk for the safety of the carers as she keeps scratching them and they may start to refuse to care for her.
Does she need to go in to a home and be sedated?
Thanks
Anita
Since breaking her hip, which has now healed, she refused to the exercises and now can't walk. Due to this, carers have go in four times a day to change her pads, prepare meals etc. Earlier this year, she went to the lounge but now she can't be bothered to even get out of bed. My main concern is the fact that she attacks the carers and me with her long nails. She doesn't understand that she needs to be changed, she screams at the carers, telling them to get out of her house. I had to grab her hands and cut them as low as possible yesterday. She took a few chunks out of me but I had to take the risk for the safety of the carers as she keeps scratching them and they may start to refuse to care for her.
Does she need to go in to a home and be sedated?
Thanks
Anita
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