Hi, my mother was diagnosed in late summer 23 with alzeheimers. She lives on her own, in a 1st floor flat with a balcony & stairs, bath no shower.
She has been proped up by myself or other retired residents living in close proximity to her for about 8 months. And is only now getting some care issued.
However I'm really struggling with the system to get the most appropriate care for her.
She has lost mental capacity... yet social workers are insisting she goes back home to her own flat.
Her mental health is rapidly declining being on her own. She is lonely and Wanders. A pendent alarm or anything else won't work as she can't use technology
The care worker is trying to find all ways possible of using tech, no care home, and little to no day care centre visits due to cost.
They want 3 / 4 touch points a day. Insist on a key safe.
Have installed key safe but they now want to log key code on their systems.
I'm not against safety, but do feel they are not working with me or in the best interest of mums care needs.
If I give out the code, is this purely for safety, or does it relinquish any other rights for my Mum and her care needs? (Yes suspicious i am)
Also, anyone with any ideas on how I can push for more care??... I can't believe the system thinks its fine to send someone home to an empty flat, to live on their own.. when they have no mental capacity to cope with their own care needs or safety.
Would they be happy to leave a 5 year old in a flat on their own??!
The system is ****! Sorry ranting on that one!
Ps. I work full time, live close-ish, but am only family member around for over 100 miles.
They keep asking me about a carers assessment... but im not a carer! I'm her daughter!!
She has been proped up by myself or other retired residents living in close proximity to her for about 8 months. And is only now getting some care issued.
However I'm really struggling with the system to get the most appropriate care for her.
She has lost mental capacity... yet social workers are insisting she goes back home to her own flat.
Her mental health is rapidly declining being on her own. She is lonely and Wanders. A pendent alarm or anything else won't work as she can't use technology
The care worker is trying to find all ways possible of using tech, no care home, and little to no day care centre visits due to cost.
They want 3 / 4 touch points a day. Insist on a key safe.
Have installed key safe but they now want to log key code on their systems.
I'm not against safety, but do feel they are not working with me or in the best interest of mums care needs.
If I give out the code, is this purely for safety, or does it relinquish any other rights for my Mum and her care needs? (Yes suspicious i am)
Also, anyone with any ideas on how I can push for more care??... I can't believe the system thinks its fine to send someone home to an empty flat, to live on their own.. when they have no mental capacity to cope with their own care needs or safety.
Would they be happy to leave a 5 year old in a flat on their own??!
The system is ****! Sorry ranting on that one!
Ps. I work full time, live close-ish, but am only family member around for over 100 miles.
They keep asking me about a carers assessment... but im not a carer! I'm her daughter!!