My 87 year old Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer's/MCI a couple of years ago. She has been fine and still lives independently in a sheltered flat, my Dad died 4 years ago. She gets her own shopping, puts ready meals in the microwave, does her own washing etc. She gets in a muddle with bills/appointments but can use a simple mobile phone and use her ipad. She was prescribed medication but refused to take pills as 'they made her very tired'.
Over the past few days she has been saying that her toaster, kettle, iron and coffee maker have been taken from her kitchen and replaced with different, sub-standard items. I said to her that people with memory issues may have these thoughts and that they are perfectly normal for someone of her age. She blames it on 'the Covid situation' and the lack of social interaction with the other residents of her sheltered accommodation complex. She is getting a urine test next week to rule out a UTI.
My Mum has always been interested in all things medical. She likes to read her medical dictionary and google any medication she has been given. I have a report from the Psychiatrist but Mum was not given a copy. Normally medical letters from the hospital to GP's are copied to the patient but obviously not for this kind of diagnosis. She is the kind of person that wants to know the ins and out of everything medical so I was wondering whether to give a copy of the report to her.
I had a tough time with MIL's dementia journey and am thinking it could be easier in the long run if I can discuss it with her openly and honestly.
Over the past few days she has been saying that her toaster, kettle, iron and coffee maker have been taken from her kitchen and replaced with different, sub-standard items. I said to her that people with memory issues may have these thoughts and that they are perfectly normal for someone of her age. She blames it on 'the Covid situation' and the lack of social interaction with the other residents of her sheltered accommodation complex. She is getting a urine test next week to rule out a UTI.
My Mum has always been interested in all things medical. She likes to read her medical dictionary and google any medication she has been given. I have a report from the Psychiatrist but Mum was not given a copy. Normally medical letters from the hospital to GP's are copied to the patient but obviously not for this kind of diagnosis. She is the kind of person that wants to know the ins and out of everything medical so I was wondering whether to give a copy of the report to her.
I had a tough time with MIL's dementia journey and am thinking it could be easier in the long run if I can discuss it with her openly and honestly.