Hi everyone
My name is Alice and I’m looking for advice.
For the last 12 months my mum has been displaying huge changes in her personality and behaviour. I have spoken to several health care professionals and gone around the houses, they all agree it’s very very likely she has FTD. The problem is she does not realise or acknowledge there is a problem and completely refuses to talk to any health professionals or have any testing. She is now violent and abusive to my dad, (her beloved husband of 50 years) and has stopped any visitors (myself included) to the house, my dad is not allowed to talk to anyone as it severely enrages her and makes her behaviour worse. Myself and dad have reached out for help to several different departments including GP, safeguarding, mental health but been told each time that if she does not consent there is nothing they can do. Has anyone else experienced this? How have you managed to get the help/diagnosis so desperately needed? I cannot believe the only thing we can now do is wait until she injures herself or my dad or wait until she is so unwell that she needs to be hospitalised. Any advice or even just to know I’m not the only one hitting these walls would be appreciated. X
My name is Alice and I’m looking for advice.
For the last 12 months my mum has been displaying huge changes in her personality and behaviour. I have spoken to several health care professionals and gone around the houses, they all agree it’s very very likely she has FTD. The problem is she does not realise or acknowledge there is a problem and completely refuses to talk to any health professionals or have any testing. She is now violent and abusive to my dad, (her beloved husband of 50 years) and has stopped any visitors (myself included) to the house, my dad is not allowed to talk to anyone as it severely enrages her and makes her behaviour worse. Myself and dad have reached out for help to several different departments including GP, safeguarding, mental health but been told each time that if she does not consent there is nothing they can do. Has anyone else experienced this? How have you managed to get the help/diagnosis so desperately needed? I cannot believe the only thing we can now do is wait until she injures herself or my dad or wait until she is so unwell that she needs to be hospitalised. Any advice or even just to know I’m not the only one hitting these walls would be appreciated. X