Mum has moderate dementia & now needs residential care funded by LAF due to her letting people in she doesn’t know & leaving her door open. mums home care package ends today due to carers no longer working in the area.
social services have been aware of this since beginning of May .
i have taken upon myself to source a home but due to the residents having advanced dementia in the homes ive visited they are not suitable for mums needs as she needs company & conversation & all above theLAF Cost.
i did find one suitable home but due to it being over the LAF budget they will not fund & I have no means to top up. Mum lives in social housing so no home to sell & no savings due to what she has been dealt with in life.
socisl services rang me at 5.20 on Friday & asked me to visit a home which is obviously within their budget but again unsuitable due to residents having advanced dementia & every door locked & a lift mum would be unable to assess on her own amongst other things & it would take away her independence.
I think my my only option would be to continue with a bigger home package but that is not going to cover the safeguarding issues & I have been filling the gaps with mums care but due to my own health issues I am no longer able to do this & the constant phone calls from mum asking me to come immediately due to her anxiety & her anxiety regarding someone breaking in at night.
But obviously my main worry is mum has no-one going in tomorrow . Her social worker has said she will be available tomorrow but what is the point in that. I’m assuming she means to get the paperwork done for me to move into the home they suggested.
i am at breaking point with it all & poor mum is in turmoil not knowing what’s happening which is having a detrimental effect on her health.
social services have been aware of this since beginning of May .
i have taken upon myself to source a home but due to the residents having advanced dementia in the homes ive visited they are not suitable for mums needs as she needs company & conversation & all above theLAF Cost.
i did find one suitable home but due to it being over the LAF budget they will not fund & I have no means to top up. Mum lives in social housing so no home to sell & no savings due to what she has been dealt with in life.
socisl services rang me at 5.20 on Friday & asked me to visit a home which is obviously within their budget but again unsuitable due to residents having advanced dementia & every door locked & a lift mum would be unable to assess on her own amongst other things & it would take away her independence.
I think my my only option would be to continue with a bigger home package but that is not going to cover the safeguarding issues & I have been filling the gaps with mums care but due to my own health issues I am no longer able to do this & the constant phone calls from mum asking me to come immediately due to her anxiety & her anxiety regarding someone breaking in at night.
But obviously my main worry is mum has no-one going in tomorrow . Her social worker has said she will be available tomorrow but what is the point in that. I’m assuming she means to get the paperwork done for me to move into the home they suggested.
i am at breaking point with it all & poor mum is in turmoil not knowing what’s happening which is having a detrimental effect on her health.