Hi, is the following common and if so how have you dealt with this.
Mum lost dad about 30yrs ago. She stayed in her home until 18yrs ago and then moved 12 miles away to live closer to me. When she first moved out here the plan was to buy a larger property and mum live with us. So we looked around a few houses but found that this wouldn't work. Luckily some new small houses were being built at the end of my street [1996] and mum bought one and lived there happily. Since the onset of dementia she now needs reminders to look around her home to know where she is. She comes out with things like, 'I've just got back from my other house [ usually meaning one in another village where we looked at a property], not the house she owns/owned. Other statements are, 'I back here now cause Sarah [ my sister] and her husband are back now so I had to move out'. 'So and so are stopping here tonight so I better go back to my other house'.
Sound familiar?
Mum lost dad about 30yrs ago. She stayed in her home until 18yrs ago and then moved 12 miles away to live closer to me. When she first moved out here the plan was to buy a larger property and mum live with us. So we looked around a few houses but found that this wouldn't work. Luckily some new small houses were being built at the end of my street [1996] and mum bought one and lived there happily. Since the onset of dementia she now needs reminders to look around her home to know where she is. She comes out with things like, 'I've just got back from my other house [ usually meaning one in another village where we looked at a property], not the house she owns/owned. Other statements are, 'I back here now cause Sarah [ my sister] and her husband are back now so I had to move out'. 'So and so are stopping here tonight so I better go back to my other house'.
Sound familiar?