I've written here on a number of occasions about my situation with my mum. I was coping okay there for a few weeks following our holiday ( orlando - husband, 2 sons and mum) but she is so unhappy and I don't know what to do.
I teach part time , so am just back to work after the summer . She is finding this difficult because I am not available to take her out or bring her to my house as early. I still pick her up every day but it is usually about 3 o'clock so until then she is alone. She won't go to day centres even though they have been offered. She does go twice a week to a ladies club in a local church from 2 until 3.30. She goes with her sister, and again I pick them up from it. These, however are closed for summer. I know she is lonely but I do my best.
Anyway she has started saying she wants to live with me This has happened before but she is now telling me she is really unhappy on her own. Bear in mind I stay overnight once a week,my 2 sons each stay overnight and she stays at her sister's house overnight once a week so she is only alone 3 nights a week and she has company with her until bedtime. I have a 3 bedroomed house and 2 sons, 19 yrs at uni and 15 yrs doing gcses. I am not willing to make them share a room , and i really don't want to live with her but she looks so pathetic and makes me feel guilty.How do you say no ?
I teach part time , so am just back to work after the summer . She is finding this difficult because I am not available to take her out or bring her to my house as early. I still pick her up every day but it is usually about 3 o'clock so until then she is alone. She won't go to day centres even though they have been offered. She does go twice a week to a ladies club in a local church from 2 until 3.30. She goes with her sister, and again I pick them up from it. These, however are closed for summer. I know she is lonely but I do my best.
Anyway she has started saying she wants to live with me This has happened before but she is now telling me she is really unhappy on her own. Bear in mind I stay overnight once a week,my 2 sons each stay overnight and she stays at her sister's house overnight once a week so she is only alone 3 nights a week and she has company with her until bedtime. I have a 3 bedroomed house and 2 sons, 19 yrs at uni and 15 yrs doing gcses. I am not willing to make them share a room , and i really don't want to live with her but she looks so pathetic and makes me feel guilty.How do you say no ?