Dad's only just started going to day care once a week, and I was worried he would refuse to go back as he'd not been interested before, but I needed a break and he needs some social interaction.
I took him the first day, literally walked him in and left telling him when I would be back and later picked him up. Apart from being a bit anxious to go quickly when I returned, the first visit went well, the staff said he'd had a laugh but he couldn't tell me much. I took him again the second time but when I picked him up he said he didn't want to go back. I didn't talk to him about it because I didn't want to harden any negative reactions. The staff said he'd had a lovely morning but got frustrated during one of the afternoon activities as some of the other residents couldn't do it. So no real problems.
The next week I'd asked that the mini bus pick him up and I only mentioned it to him about half an hour before, reminding him that he has a good lunch there. He was fine and went straight onto the bus. When he came back he was tired but had clearly enjoyed the day. The fourth time I did the same routine and he was fine. He's had a bit of an accident not getting to the loo on time but the staff had put him in clean clothes and even rinsed out his own, so he had no negative response. Inded he praised them, said they'd got it set up nicely - and he does enjoy the lunch.
So I'm really glad we found the day care and persevered with it. I think he feels more independant going and coming back on his own so I'd recommend getting a minibus place if one is on offer.
Just hoping this will give you more confidence - it's a good move to make.