...ringing me countless times on a Saturday night! She is driving me to distraction. Last night she called me 4 times between 5.30 & 6, it is the same every week. She wants to know what time I'm picking her up for Mass, she already had a note telling her so she must have talked to her sister. I confirmed the note was correct (approx. 5 times per call) I told her we were going out so I wouldn't be answering the phone for a while.
When I got back at 8.15 I had 12 messages ranging from, what time... to I don't think I can come because I feel rotten. She gets herself so worked up that I don't doubt she feels rotten.
Rang her & confirmed time. Made our tea & she left 4 messages while we were eating it! Rang & confirmed!! She then rang a further 6 times between 9 & 10.
My OH says to tell her I am not going in future but that won't work cos she'll forget! It is so ingrained in her that she goes on Sunday morning & she's been coming with me for 18 months or so. Just want for both our sakes these d*mned phone calls to stop on Saturday evening.
Oh! and BTW I will ring her at 8 today to see if she wants to go & can pretty much be certain that she will say no, she doesn't feel well enough. I know the whole thing is down to anxiety but I have no idea how to allay her fears.
When I got back at 8.15 I had 12 messages ranging from, what time... to I don't think I can come because I feel rotten. She gets herself so worked up that I don't doubt she feels rotten.
Rang her & confirmed time. Made our tea & she left 4 messages while we were eating it! Rang & confirmed!! She then rang a further 6 times between 9 & 10.
My OH says to tell her I am not going in future but that won't work cos she'll forget! It is so ingrained in her that she goes on Sunday morning & she's been coming with me for 18 months or so. Just want for both our sakes these d*mned phone calls to stop on Saturday evening.
Oh! and BTW I will ring her at 8 today to see if she wants to go & can pretty much be certain that she will say no, she doesn't feel well enough. I know the whole thing is down to anxiety but I have no idea how to allay her fears.