just got back from 5 days of one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life.
spent as much time as I could in hospital visiting my mum whos been dx with vascular dementia,did,nt really know what to expect but I suppose I had some kind of fantasy of what I thought it would be like....I think im still in some kind of shock..nothing prepared me for what I actually was presented with,the staff are fantastic,but mum is a handful, violent,agressive,angry crying,and this can all happen in the space of a few minutes or go on for an afternoon.
she,s in a hospital detained under the dolls system and has been there for the past 2, and a half months,my father who,s 88 and has been dealing with these effects for the past 18 months did,nt tell us,{he did,nt want to worry us}but in the end he could.nt hide it anymore its had a devastating effect on him,and still is,
I hope to be able to ask you all for advice on the journey ahead,my main and only priority is my mums best interests right now,i need to focus on that,and do the best I can for her......and dad....I have lots of questions and issues to do with care ,but this seems to be one issue at a time,so for now I wil just say hello,and read around the forum
spent as much time as I could in hospital visiting my mum whos been dx with vascular dementia,did,nt really know what to expect but I suppose I had some kind of fantasy of what I thought it would be like....I think im still in some kind of shock..nothing prepared me for what I actually was presented with,the staff are fantastic,but mum is a handful, violent,agressive,angry crying,and this can all happen in the space of a few minutes or go on for an afternoon.
she,s in a hospital detained under the dolls system and has been there for the past 2, and a half months,my father who,s 88 and has been dealing with these effects for the past 18 months did,nt tell us,{he did,nt want to worry us}but in the end he could.nt hide it anymore its had a devastating effect on him,and still is,
I hope to be able to ask you all for advice on the journey ahead,my main and only priority is my mums best interests right now,i need to focus on that,and do the best I can for her......and dad....I have lots of questions and issues to do with care ,but this seems to be one issue at a time,so for now I wil just say hello,and read around the forum