we have always let my father, who suffers from vascular dementia and lives with my mother , keep hold of a debit card for my their joint bank account, as a kind of comfort blanket apart from anything else.
we have now found that when going for the daily paper which is his allotted daily task, he has been going onto the bank and drawing money out. goodness knows how as there is no way he can remember his pin number (unless he has it written down somewhere secretly).
obviously neither my mother or I (son) are too happy about this as he has no need of vast amounts of cash and frankly it is a security risk.
we had power of attorney set up ready to exercise some time ago but have never exercised it. It may be approaching the point where we need to. It is easy enough to change the pin number but i fear there will be ructions if we need to take the bank card off of him, and i fear for the bank staff too if he is not allowed to draw cash out when he goes along. Help ! anyone had similar issues !
we have now found that when going for the daily paper which is his allotted daily task, he has been going onto the bank and drawing money out. goodness knows how as there is no way he can remember his pin number (unless he has it written down somewhere secretly).
obviously neither my mother or I (son) are too happy about this as he has no need of vast amounts of cash and frankly it is a security risk.
we had power of attorney set up ready to exercise some time ago but have never exercised it. It may be approaching the point where we need to. It is easy enough to change the pin number but i fear there will be ructions if we need to take the bank card off of him, and i fear for the bank staff too if he is not allowed to draw cash out when he goes along. Help ! anyone had similar issues !