I used to do MIL's shopping when I did my own , work out how much her's was & then re-imburse myself by using the cashcard for her POA account with Lloyds. Everything else was done by direct debit from the account & I just kept detailed records of income & outgoings. Lloyds were very helpful & knowledgeable about POA accounts as were Leeds Building Society.
Anyone who may be interested, seeing as problems registering POAs with banks crops up regularly on TP, the following is what my husband heard on the radio and might be useful for some of you.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b03w16j4
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MONEY BOX LIVE
Presenter: LESLEY CURWEN
Alan Eccles is the Public Guardian for England and Wales; in Edinburgh is Sandra McDonald, who’s the Public Guardian for Scotland where the rules are somewhat different; and also solicitor and author Caroline Bielanska from Solicitors for the Elderly.
TRANSMISSION: 26th FEBRUARY 2014 3.00-3.30 RADIO 4
CURWEN: Okay, Phil, thank you for that. I want to read a quick email about banks actually, but in a slightly different context. An email from Steve who says that he’s tried to register a Power of Attorney with a particular bank. It’s taken six visits to two branches, two meetings with a branch manager, pounds in calls to 0845 numbers, and caused him a great deal of stress. And he claims that this particular bank had no coherent procedure for allowing registration of Powers of Attorney. How much do you get this sort of thing, Alan Eccles - complaints about the banks just not doing it quickly enough?
ECCLES: It happens sufficiently regularly for us to be doing a considerable amount of work with the banks. We’ve been doing a great deal of work with the British Banking Association and the Buildings Societies Association and on 1st April 2013 we issued a joint charter about Third-Party Mandates and Powers of Attorney, which is a standard now across all banking institutions. We issued both a guide for the consumer and a guide for banking staff badged under the three organisations. And in addition to that, we now at the Office of the Public Guardian raise general concerns that people are raising with us about services by banks with each of the individual banks and we’re actually working with each of them to try and address each of these issues.
CURWEN: Sandra in Edinburgh, do you get complaints like this?
McDONALD: Very similar complaints and regularly. I think we have to acknowledge that the banks you know do create an issue for us here, but there is a genuine willingness on their part to address this. They’re putting in, for instance, dementia champions into branches, really trying very hard and proactively to change this situation.