Hi,
New to the forum and needing advice please.
My mother in law is 87 and following her diagnosis of alzheimers and following a major operation she has resided in a care home for the last 8 months voluntarily and with family support. Her care in this home has been far from satisfactory and the family decided that it would be better for her to be in her own home and receive care at home along with support from her family. Social services initially went along with this and a OHT was involved to help with her move home, initially through a 2 week assessment in a rehab unit. However, the OHT said she was well enough to not attend the assessment and with some modifications to her home all should be well. Notice was given at the care home. 5 days before her planned move home, her social worker and OHT arranged a meeting with my wife, which i attended in the care home along with my mother in law. It was obvious the the 2 of them behind the scenes had decided that they were not going to allow my mother in law to leave the home on the planned date and the social worker asked my mother in law directly whether she wanted to move home. Despite saying in the presence of the OHT 15 mins earlier that she would, when asked by the social worker she stated that she was happy where she was. The OHT then stated the risks of her move i.e. falling etc. I questioned that she was at as much risk in the home if not significantly more, she had fallen at least twice, contracted CDif twice, come within 2 hours of her life having been rushed to hospital after neglect so in our opinion she would be better looked after at her own home. The upshot of all of this was that they would not allow her to be taken home until a meeting had been convened to discuss her mental ability to make decisions for herself. Do we as a family have any legal rights in this matter or do the social services hold all the cards. We are extremely anxious that the odds are stacked against us as we do not know where we stand legally. Any advice or sources of advice would be gratefully received. Thank you.
New to the forum and needing advice please.
My mother in law is 87 and following her diagnosis of alzheimers and following a major operation she has resided in a care home for the last 8 months voluntarily and with family support. Her care in this home has been far from satisfactory and the family decided that it would be better for her to be in her own home and receive care at home along with support from her family. Social services initially went along with this and a OHT was involved to help with her move home, initially through a 2 week assessment in a rehab unit. However, the OHT said she was well enough to not attend the assessment and with some modifications to her home all should be well. Notice was given at the care home. 5 days before her planned move home, her social worker and OHT arranged a meeting with my wife, which i attended in the care home along with my mother in law. It was obvious the the 2 of them behind the scenes had decided that they were not going to allow my mother in law to leave the home on the planned date and the social worker asked my mother in law directly whether she wanted to move home. Despite saying in the presence of the OHT 15 mins earlier that she would, when asked by the social worker she stated that she was happy where she was. The OHT then stated the risks of her move i.e. falling etc. I questioned that she was at as much risk in the home if not significantly more, she had fallen at least twice, contracted CDif twice, come within 2 hours of her life having been rushed to hospital after neglect so in our opinion she would be better looked after at her own home. The upshot of all of this was that they would not allow her to be taken home until a meeting had been convened to discuss her mental ability to make decisions for herself. Do we as a family have any legal rights in this matter or do the social services hold all the cards. We are extremely anxious that the odds are stacked against us as we do not know where we stand legally. Any advice or sources of advice would be gratefully received. Thank you.