Hi all - its been 4 weeks since my mom passed on and I still haven't really taken in the full magnitude of this trauma -it hits me in huge waves and then retreats for a while.
It hasn't been helped by my mom's family who have really upset me. I don't want to go into too much detail on here but they have blamed my mom's "premature" death on me not looking after her properly!!!!!!
When I asked what else did they expect me to do/not do - I was informed that an orthopaedic bed may have been a good idea and how her hair could have been done more often!
In between sobs I explained that an orthopaedic bed would never have helped or stopped the strokes in her brain and how on earth would a cut and blow dry have helped? My mom physically lashed out for months - a haircut? is it me?????? I was truly staggered by their ignorance of this evil disease and total lack of empathy towards me.
They were never here - they never saw how my lovely mom was being destroyed by this evil disease in front of our eyes.
They have knocked me back in my darkest hour..... give me strength - thank god for my real and "virtual" friends because this is a family I definitely don't need.
Why?
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It hasn't been helped by my mom's family who have really upset me. I don't want to go into too much detail on here but they have blamed my mom's "premature" death on me not looking after her properly!!!!!!
When I asked what else did they expect me to do/not do - I was informed that an orthopaedic bed may have been a good idea and how her hair could have been done more often!
In between sobs I explained that an orthopaedic bed would never have helped or stopped the strokes in her brain and how on earth would a cut and blow dry have helped? My mom physically lashed out for months - a haircut? is it me?????? I was truly staggered by their ignorance of this evil disease and total lack of empathy towards me.
They were never here - they never saw how my lovely mom was being destroyed by this evil disease in front of our eyes.
They have knocked me back in my darkest hour..... give me strength - thank god for my real and "virtual" friends because this is a family I definitely don't need.
Why?
x