Hello, I have a serious problem. My step-father is diagnosed with the final stage of dementia. He lost his ability to swallow and they said he will aspirate if given anything by mouth. He has been in the hospital for the last two weeks. When he went in he had some infection plus pneumonia. They successfully treated those but now he is lying in the hospital for two weeks without food, getting only some saline solution. The doctors said his dementia has advanced beyond the stage where he recognizes hunger and a feeding tube was discussed and considered in a meeting but the doctors claim it will not do much and considering his age and stage of dementia it would not make much difference. My problem is that he cant talk but I am troubled if he is not suffering from hunger. Last night he was sleeping and the nurse gave him and injection and he cried out. He can't talk but responds to stimuli. If you flash your hand across his eyes his eyelids closed spontaneously. When you hold his hand he knows and he looks at you as if he wants to say something. When you sing his favorite hymns you know he hears you. He was to go to be discharged to a hospice but but my mother prefers him home, so he will be discharged back to home tomorrow where he will be getting home care plus hospice facilities and help.
My question is,"Is it likely that he is starving to death? What is the possibility that he knows and feels hunger? Is it a big risk if we try to give him small amounts of liquid foods by mouth? We just can't sit there and have him starve to death? Although he will be still getting the saline treatment - that is not food. This is a big concern for us. I'd like some feedback from the community and if possible some professional advice too. Thank you!
My question is,"Is it likely that he is starving to death? What is the possibility that he knows and feels hunger? Is it a big risk if we try to give him small amounts of liquid foods by mouth? We just can't sit there and have him starve to death? Although he will be still getting the saline treatment - that is not food. This is a big concern for us. I'd like some feedback from the community and if possible some professional advice too. Thank you!