Hi,
This is my first post.
Mom, who forgets she has AD, was recently considered to have moved from mild to moderate. She is still driving, something I have been worried about for some time. Her car is picking up an increasing number of unexplained scrapes and scratches, and the next door neighbours recently found her stopped on the road asking strangers for directions on what would be a familiar route.
I have raised it with the GP and the consultant geriatrician a number of time. The consultant recently acknowledged my worries and suggested I set up an assessment with the Irish Wheelchair Association (who apparently are the "go to" people). They passed her fit to drive, having previously told me their concern is to keep people on the road where possible, not put them off it (so I think we're of different mindsets!).
I have told the insurance co about her diagnosis and they're happy to keep covering her until the doc will no longer certify her. However, Mom can't cope with paperwork so I have to rifle through her post and make sure she has sent back DD mandates etc to the insurance co (and other unrelated things). So, I'm now stressing out trying to sort the paperwork in a way that doesn't upset her about her memory, and all so she can carry on with an activity I think has become too dangerous for her!!
I know that giving up driving is an awful loss of freedom, and she's already feeling miserable enough, but I'm increasingly worried.
Any ideas?
Sorry for length of post!
V
This is my first post.
Mom, who forgets she has AD, was recently considered to have moved from mild to moderate. She is still driving, something I have been worried about for some time. Her car is picking up an increasing number of unexplained scrapes and scratches, and the next door neighbours recently found her stopped on the road asking strangers for directions on what would be a familiar route.
I have raised it with the GP and the consultant geriatrician a number of time. The consultant recently acknowledged my worries and suggested I set up an assessment with the Irish Wheelchair Association (who apparently are the "go to" people). They passed her fit to drive, having previously told me their concern is to keep people on the road where possible, not put them off it (so I think we're of different mindsets!).
I have told the insurance co about her diagnosis and they're happy to keep covering her until the doc will no longer certify her. However, Mom can't cope with paperwork so I have to rifle through her post and make sure she has sent back DD mandates etc to the insurance co (and other unrelated things). So, I'm now stressing out trying to sort the paperwork in a way that doesn't upset her about her memory, and all so she can carry on with an activity I think has become too dangerous for her!!
I know that giving up driving is an awful loss of freedom, and she's already feeling miserable enough, but I'm increasingly worried.
Any ideas?
Sorry for length of post!
V