I feel so guilty but also feel I shouldn't
I have wanted to move house for a while to somewhere with more space ... internal and external.. We are shoehorned into our house.
My Mum who I am now caring for has made it clear that she does not want to move .. and wants to die in her house.
We currently live in the same town but if I moved to get the space i need it is likely to be much further away to the extent that i couldn't be as flexible and see her daily.
I would like to get a place with an annexe. that way I could keep a much closer eye .. but we wouldn't be on top of eachother.
I have 1 sibling who lives on the other side of the world who has not seen my mum for over 25 years.
I am the only carer she has
Has anyone else had this dilema
I have wanted to move house for a while to somewhere with more space ... internal and external.. We are shoehorned into our house.
My Mum who I am now caring for has made it clear that she does not want to move .. and wants to die in her house.
We currently live in the same town but if I moved to get the space i need it is likely to be much further away to the extent that i couldn't be as flexible and see her daily.
I would like to get a place with an annexe. that way I could keep a much closer eye .. but we wouldn't be on top of eachother.
I have 1 sibling who lives on the other side of the world who has not seen my mum for over 25 years.
I am the only carer she has
Has anyone else had this dilema