I've had a dreadful couple of weeks since John has been in respite. The first day in CH he developed another UTI, and wasn't eating much. He looked worse every time I visited. The nursing staff were very good and did all they could and by Sunday his infection had cleared but his swallowing seems to be worse. He was constantly having to be reminded that he was coming home on Saturday as the work to the shower/wet room would be finished. On Monday apparently he asked to sit in the coffee lounge with some other residents (a first!) and was more alert. Then at 8.00pm I had a call from the CH to say he'd fallen from his chair (he was trying to stand, which he can't do unaided) hit his head and an ambulance was on its way. I followed ambulance to hospital and stayed until very late. The head injury wasn't serious but they wanted to keep him overnight for observation.
I went in yesterday and was told he'd be admitted to a ward and was likely to stay longer, he was on a drip to re-hydrate him and wired to ECG machine. The consultant then came and took me out of the room and said that he has acute kidney failure, with only 1% function of the kidneys, his heart is pumping too hard and his pulse is very irregular, and then the bombshell - if his heart stopped do you want us to resusitate!!!
I'm stunned and shocked that he's that bad, although the doctor said that it's unlikely to happen, but he had to know just in case
Don't know what to think or do now, just hoping and praying he'll pull through!
I went in yesterday and was told he'd be admitted to a ward and was likely to stay longer, he was on a drip to re-hydrate him and wired to ECG machine. The consultant then came and took me out of the room and said that he has acute kidney failure, with only 1% function of the kidneys, his heart is pumping too hard and his pulse is very irregular, and then the bombshell - if his heart stopped do you want us to resusitate!!!
I'm stunned and shocked that he's that bad, although the doctor said that it's unlikely to happen, but he had to know just in case
Don't know what to think or do now, just hoping and praying he'll pull through!