My mum lives in the vale of glamorgan. She has vascular dementia. It is fairly advanced - she hasn't left the house unaccompanied for more than a year and does nothing for herself at all. But she is mobile and in reasonable physical health. She is only 79. The big fly in the ointment is that she is extremely attached to her dog - a springer spaniel -9 years old - the one constant feature in her life - and the one thing she never forgets - although she no longer feeds it - except chocolate brownies, biscuits etc and never takes it out - but that is another complex story (my poor sister - who lives nearby - adds it to her long list of things she has to do to look after my mum on top of her full time job).
We need to find a care home but we don't know where to start. Is there any reliable source that would help me draw up a bit of a shortlist to visit over a few days? I am planning to take a week of holiday next month, so that my sister and I can tramp the streets together. In a perfect world (ha ha) we are looking for somewhere that ideally has a residential pet, or visits from PAT dogs.
We need to find a care home but we don't know where to start. Is there any reliable source that would help me draw up a bit of a shortlist to visit over a few days? I am planning to take a week of holiday next month, so that my sister and I can tramp the streets together. In a perfect world (ha ha) we are looking for somewhere that ideally has a residential pet, or visits from PAT dogs.