I'm caring for my dad in his own home, and over the past 6 months or so things have got much more demanding. I really need to get away for a few days break with my OH, so will have to sort out care for Dad while we're away. I don't think having carers coming into the house throughout the day will be enough to keep him safe, and there's no family nearby to help out, so I really think the only option we have is a care home. I've started contacting local care homes who can offer respite care and I'll be having a look round them soon. My main worry is how we'll persuade Dad to go into respite while we're away. I'm quite sure he'll hate the idea of leaving his home and will be adamant that he can take care of himself. That's absolutely not the case, but of course he doesn't see things as we do. I've read the leaflet about respite on this website, which was very helpful, but I'm just interested in other people's experiences/tips on how to broach the subject and deal with what's likely to be a very frosty reception from my Dad.