My dad (78) is suffering short term memory loss and is an increasing strain on my mother. He no longer drives, can't cook, doesn't remember conversations he's just had or recognise books he was reading ten minutes before putting them down.
If my mum has an accident, I am no longer sure my Dad would be able to phone an ambulance or cope with the panic.
despite this, everytime myself or my mother raise the issue of having him visit a Doctor for a formal analysis, or a memory clinic, he gets angry at us and tells us "I am absolutely fine, there's nothing wrong with my memory" or accuses us of trying to get rid of him and put him in a home. Then my mum gets angry at him - not an ideal situation.
What is a good way to get him to visit a memory clinic without offending him or working him into a state?
Any help or advice most welcome!
If my mum has an accident, I am no longer sure my Dad would be able to phone an ambulance or cope with the panic.
despite this, everytime myself or my mother raise the issue of having him visit a Doctor for a formal analysis, or a memory clinic, he gets angry at us and tells us "I am absolutely fine, there's nothing wrong with my memory" or accuses us of trying to get rid of him and put him in a home. Then my mum gets angry at him - not an ideal situation.
What is a good way to get him to visit a memory clinic without offending him or working him into a state?
Any help or advice most welcome!