My mum is 89 years old, lives on her own and wants to stay independent with us giving as much help as we can. Sometimes we have as many as 40 telephone calls anytime night or day. A month or so, before Christmas my mum lost / mislaid her bank cards, which in the end we cancelled at the bank. Since then these bank cards will not leave her thoughts, we have tries to explain every way possible to say she has no need to worry, that her bank account is safe, and if she needs any money we take it to her. But some how the message just does not fix in her mind, and continues to worry her about the lost cards. We have put memory boards by the telephone, we get money to her in the shortest of time to avoid her worries. We have tried explaining the situation but in the end she gets rude and aggressive. Has anyone got any ideas how we can get out of this constant circle of bank cards.
Thank you.
Thank you.