I'm not quite sure how to ask this, so will just come out with it. How does everyone cope with sex? I have completely lost any urge to have sex with my hubby, whereas he still wants it a lot. More than before he got ill it seems. It just feels wrong trying to have sex with him, it's like having sex with someone who's not all there. I know it's not his fault and he gets really fed up with me because I don't want it. But things are just not the same.