Hi, I'v just written a long thread and then lost it all which is quite demoralising after plucking up the courage to reach out and talk to someone (anyone) and tell them how I'm feeling. someone who will understand.
I'm the only daughter in a family of four children, We've all had difficult childhoods and strained relationships with our mum. Everything has fallen on my shouldersans keeping her at home has been an exhausting three years. things have got too dangerous for her to live on her own and I'v had to get her into emergency respite on fridayt, I went to see her yesterday and it was heartbreaking and depressing, everyones dementia is a lot more advanced than my mums, although the staff seem nice. I will be onto the social worker tomorrow to get her moved, but right at this moment I feel so guilty that she has to be there although everyone keeps telling me that I'v done the right thing
I'm the only daughter in a family of four children, We've all had difficult childhoods and strained relationships with our mum. Everything has fallen on my shouldersans keeping her at home has been an exhausting three years. things have got too dangerous for her to live on her own and I'v had to get her into emergency respite on fridayt, I went to see her yesterday and it was heartbreaking and depressing, everyones dementia is a lot more advanced than my mums, although the staff seem nice. I will be onto the social worker tomorrow to get her moved, but right at this moment I feel so guilty that she has to be there although everyone keeps telling me that I'v done the right thing