This afternoon husband, son and i went off to a football match. My mum, who lives with us was quite happy to stay in the house as she usually does. I left a note as usual to say where we were and what time we' d be back, about six. I also left my phone no and i called her at half time. All was fine. She was watching tv and i said we would be home soon.
So were driving down the road that leads to ours, husband dipped his lights as someone was walking along the the road. There are no street lights it is quite rural. The person walking along the road with no coat, handbag and book in hand was my mum. We stopped the car and she didn't even seem supposed to see us. My husband was brilliant and asked her where she was going to which of course she said home. That' s good he said we'll give you a lift. I just couldn't speak i was horrified. We've tried to be normal since getting home, i kept thinking what would have happened if we hadn't come along at that point? i now have no idea what to do next.she has been mentioning going home more frequently lately so i suppose the signs were there. She had always promised she wouldn't go out if i wasn't here and always said no she would be too frightened. Well that's obviously not the case anymore. My little 82 year old mum out in the dark on her own with no coat on a November night . I don't know what to do. I'm so scared. I know this is the next stage and hope we wouldn't get here for a lot longer.
So were driving down the road that leads to ours, husband dipped his lights as someone was walking along the the road. There are no street lights it is quite rural. The person walking along the road with no coat, handbag and book in hand was my mum. We stopped the car and she didn't even seem supposed to see us. My husband was brilliant and asked her where she was going to which of course she said home. That' s good he said we'll give you a lift. I just couldn't speak i was horrified. We've tried to be normal since getting home, i kept thinking what would have happened if we hadn't come along at that point? i now have no idea what to do next.she has been mentioning going home more frequently lately so i suppose the signs were there. She had always promised she wouldn't go out if i wasn't here and always said no she would be too frightened. Well that's obviously not the case anymore. My little 82 year old mum out in the dark on her own with no coat on a November night . I don't know what to do. I'm so scared. I know this is the next stage and hope we wouldn't get here for a lot longer.
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