I've only posted a few times before but do read this forum regularly. Mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia just over 18 months ago & in all honesty, has been fairly ok until just recently. Her memory is getting worse which I'd expect, but the most difficult part is her denial of everything. I know I should have plenty of patience with her because she's not the mum I knew anymore, but I'm finding it difficult just lately to stay calm and I shouldn't be feeling like this I know. I work full time & some days are longer than others, so when I get home tired & just wanting a cuppa, I feel a bit resentful of having to speak to her. Any appointments she has, dependant on what they are, I do or me & my youngest brother do with her I have two brothers, one of whom hardly bothers with our mum, the other looks after her finances and sees & speaks to her regularly. I speak to her most days & every weekend we go out for the day somewhere, whether it's shopping & lunch or something else. If we can't go out, for whatever reason, on either of the weekend days, I feel so guilty, because she looks forward to it so much. The last 3 weeks have been stressful to say the least. In short, she had her flu jab & promptly insulted the nurse. I told her off (which I now know I shouldn't have) and it's escalated into her going to the surgery every day (which she denies), looking for her so she can apologise. The nurse rang mum to tell her it was ok & not to worry, all was fine. Mum still continued with her fixation until yesterday, when I spoke to the surgery who have suggested she comes in tomorrow to see the nurse face to face so hopefully will get closure on the issue. I rang mum tonight to let her know about the surgery visit but she already knew, as she'd rung the surgery herself today! Again! The frustration is driving me nuts, that I shouted......then cried when I put the phone down. Sorry for the rant. I feel so bad