Hi, with my mum having undergone two years of treatment for breast cancer and my dad getting progressively worse with his dementia, we're starting to think about care homes. Problem is, dad still enjoys days out with his carers and the biggest problem for us has been his increasingly aggressive and anxious behaviour when alone with mum,particularly late at night. However, as I said, he still enjoys going out and meeting people, not sure he'd fit into a dementia unit yet so thinking of a care home where he can start in the 'normal' part. How have people managed to get their loved ones to accept going into a home? Have people tried respite care to introduce them or does this just make it worse? We also thought about telling him it's a hotel?!! Any ideas/experience to share gratefully received. Best wishes, AJG