Yes complaints have been made in writing. SS have been uncooperative for months, CH take an aggressive stance as well and MCA phoned up SS before answering or rather evading my questions. They are protecting their own backsides. If I ask for information they state I don't have a right to it and if my father signs a letter either he is incapable of understanding what is written or else they claim I am forcing him to sign documents. It is for that reason that I requested that my father be present at all meetings with SS.
It reads as if a Judicial Review perhaps needs to be sort, which may not at least initially help the parties work together to find the best way through a very difficult situation for everyone involved. I am much relived that in dealing with my mother in law, who is basically compliant, we have not hit significant conflict although the practical and emotional problems are enough without such contention as we have been reading about.
It is at times like this one wishes there was fairy dust to sprinkle and make all well!