Hi all,
After a traumatic couple of months where my Mum as well as Dad was diagnosed with dementia, we lost her to lung cancer a couple of weeks ago.
Dad is in moderate stages of AZ & finding it hard to cope on his own... we've had carers in 3 times a day and at night with me making up the gaps in care. It has become apparent that he needs 24 hrs care, for company as much as anything as he is so lonely and anxious since Mum died.
We have found a promising nursing home and have decided on a 2 wk respite period for Dad, but I'm wracked with guilt and nerves about how to expedite this. He is supposed to be going there tomorrow and I want the transition from home to "home" to be as stress free as possible.
Has anyone got any tips?
thanks, Clarison x
After a traumatic couple of months where my Mum as well as Dad was diagnosed with dementia, we lost her to lung cancer a couple of weeks ago.
Dad is in moderate stages of AZ & finding it hard to cope on his own... we've had carers in 3 times a day and at night with me making up the gaps in care. It has become apparent that he needs 24 hrs care, for company as much as anything as he is so lonely and anxious since Mum died.
We have found a promising nursing home and have decided on a 2 wk respite period for Dad, but I'm wracked with guilt and nerves about how to expedite this. He is supposed to be going there tomorrow and I want the transition from home to "home" to be as stress free as possible.
Has anyone got any tips?
thanks, Clarison x