The last words Ron said to me were
Am I going to die.
I go to bed every night and hear the question.
I lied, and told him no.
I have lived with that for nine months.
The doctor had told me he would.
It has driven me to no sleep, smoking, which is beyond my means,and drinking, which is not me, (and I do not mean tea).
Oh Ron, if I could send a message to you now it would be come home, but I know you cannot.
I am selfish for asking.
I am looking at your photograph, your beautiful face XX
I have said goodbye so many times. But, I cannot let go.
I cannot go to the graveyard.
Nothing there. Just ashes.
I remember you telling me, when we visited your mum and dad,which is where you are now, your dad would have told you, what good do you think you are doing here, he was right.
I have to let go.
Forgive me, I have to say this, a child,
A parent, brother, sister, is such a great loss.
But a husband, a wife who loved one another. They were not from family. They just looked at one another, in our case (across a crowded pool) and we both , well we fell in love.
I did not ask his age, I found out later he was 23 years older than me.
I would not change anything.
I loved him, he loved me.
But, I have to say, in my case, the loss hit me more than I thought it would.
I wake every day, I turn over, the bed is empty.
But, my heart is filled with the love and joy that I met my Ron.
And for that I am greatfull
Barb XX
Am I going to die.
I go to bed every night and hear the question.
I lied, and told him no.
I have lived with that for nine months.
The doctor had told me he would.
It has driven me to no sleep, smoking, which is beyond my means,and drinking, which is not me, (and I do not mean tea).
Oh Ron, if I could send a message to you now it would be come home, but I know you cannot.
I am selfish for asking.
I am looking at your photograph, your beautiful face XX
I have said goodbye so many times. But, I cannot let go.
I cannot go to the graveyard.
Nothing there. Just ashes.
I remember you telling me, when we visited your mum and dad,which is where you are now, your dad would have told you, what good do you think you are doing here, he was right.
I have to let go.
Forgive me, I have to say this, a child,
A parent, brother, sister, is such a great loss.
But a husband, a wife who loved one another. They were not from family. They just looked at one another, in our case (across a crowded pool) and we both , well we fell in love.
I did not ask his age, I found out later he was 23 years older than me.
I would not change anything.
I loved him, he loved me.
But, I have to say, in my case, the loss hit me more than I thought it would.
I wake every day, I turn over, the bed is empty.
But, my heart is filled with the love and joy that I met my Ron.
And for that I am greatfull
Barb XX