Hello
I thought I'd finally write a line to introduce myself, and would like to ask advice from the great people on here who have soo much more experience than me.
3 months ago my husband left his job and we moved in his mother with VD. We have a 5 year old, 9 month onld and next baby due 31st Dec so we have a pretty busy/full house!
Mother is, on the whole, not very difficult to care for physically and is responsive to suggestion and distraction. However she gets days when she wakes up with a terrible mood and is destructive to anything she get get hold VERY rude and quite agressive to husband- and will ignore anything I say! Days like this she isn't open to suggestion or ditractable with anything- just wanders being angry with no identifiable cause. (She had just got up and i gave her a Tea and got an incomprehensable mouthful !)
When she is bad I am very protective over the little ones and we have started to lock the kitchen door ( with her safe to wander the rest of the house which is secure and nothing to harm ) more to keep the children from experiancing the behavior -- but I really feel bad about this. Husband has no qualms ( he is the 'official'carer) Is this a suitable way to deal with these days or is there anything else members could suggest. I just don't want to do wrong by her-- but equally my kids come first xxx
Thanks for readingxxx
Kittypuury and her kittens
I thought I'd finally write a line to introduce myself, and would like to ask advice from the great people on here who have soo much more experience than me.
3 months ago my husband left his job and we moved in his mother with VD. We have a 5 year old, 9 month onld and next baby due 31st Dec so we have a pretty busy/full house!
Mother is, on the whole, not very difficult to care for physically and is responsive to suggestion and distraction. However she gets days when she wakes up with a terrible mood and is destructive to anything she get get hold VERY rude and quite agressive to husband- and will ignore anything I say! Days like this she isn't open to suggestion or ditractable with anything- just wanders being angry with no identifiable cause. (She had just got up and i gave her a Tea and got an incomprehensable mouthful !)
When she is bad I am very protective over the little ones and we have started to lock the kitchen door ( with her safe to wander the rest of the house which is secure and nothing to harm ) more to keep the children from experiancing the behavior -- but I really feel bad about this. Husband has no qualms ( he is the 'official'carer) Is this a suitable way to deal with these days or is there anything else members could suggest. I just don't want to do wrong by her-- but equally my kids come first xxx
Thanks for readingxxx
Kittypuury and her kittens