Hello, I read the posts on this forum often and it has been a help with many of our problems with mum but just recently It is becoming more difficult to communicate with her. Mum moved to a supported living house 9 months ago. The staff are wonderful, patient and caring, but mum just cant seem to settle. She continually thinks the staff or more recently me or my sister are hiding her things(she puts things away and forgets where they are)when I try to explain the situation, she gets cross saying we dont listen to her and we are terrible children. She also tells the staff we dont visit or care about her, we do virtually every day! she also says strange things about the other residents of her house, there are 5 other people living there, with varous problems. Every time I see her now we quarrel, I dont want to contradict her but when she accuses the staff of stealing, not giving her meds or of my sister neglecting her, (she says the same of me) I feel I need to tell her the truth. I dread visits now and often come away in tears. We are both at the end of our tether. How can I deal with what she says without going round in circles. She has AD and is on Aricept. Any advice would be welcome.