Ive managed to get my mum back on aricept and she is improving a lot more alert and settled proving what i said vindicated i was right all along and the doctors and C,P,N nurse were wrong the so called experts. The care home were she lives still leaves a lot to be desired Ive still got a lot of ass kicking to do with them although there improving now in the right direction. Ive looked after my mum for over twelve years now all on my own.Taken **** after **** from my so called family that still say i know nothing about alzheimer's may be so but i know my mum and i do my research When things should be getting easier Ive now been diagnosed with throat cancer have only 60% survival chance.can my life get any harder what will happen to my mum if i die the rest of the so called family wont bother with her make sure she is getting the right medicines or care or help her to have a life or just treat her like a human being or just love her like i do will some one please please tell me why this now