My sweet (at the moment)little MIL has been living with us since Christmas. She is 67 this month and was diagnosed 4 years ago. She has always loved her food and used to get frozen meals delivered with the odd dessert. She doesn't do much apart from watch telly and a little walk around the garden, she is a tiny bit round in the middle.
Her cares were brilliant, but didn't let her have any treats and told her that chocolate gave her a headache so she doesn't go near that now they have drummed it into her.
My thing is, that I like to feed her. I give her things like liver & bacon and fish pie and then I have to give her a pudding and a bit of cake with her afternoon cuppa.
It's the guilt of making her leave her home and I keep trying to please her, cause what else has she got, nothing, food is the only thing that keeps her going.
Does it really matter that she's allowed to enjoy food while she can, when she has such a terrible thing happening to her. I guess I want some one to say 'Yes give her cake, it's ok' some day she won't be able to eat at all. Does anyone feel the same or do some of you stick to a strict diet?
Her cares were brilliant, but didn't let her have any treats and told her that chocolate gave her a headache so she doesn't go near that now they have drummed it into her.
My thing is, that I like to feed her. I give her things like liver & bacon and fish pie and then I have to give her a pudding and a bit of cake with her afternoon cuppa.
It's the guilt of making her leave her home and I keep trying to please her, cause what else has she got, nothing, food is the only thing that keeps her going.
Does it really matter that she's allowed to enjoy food while she can, when she has such a terrible thing happening to her. I guess I want some one to say 'Yes give her cake, it's ok' some day she won't be able to eat at all. Does anyone feel the same or do some of you stick to a strict diet?