First Post Thoughts
Hi, this is my first time on the site and it is so nice to read all your posts as I can identify with all of them.
My mother is 60 and was diagnosed with alzheimers three years ago. It has been a fairly rapid decline, and myself and my father have been on a huge learning curve.
In response to some of the issues raised I would always say that it is so important to make the most of the time you have. I completey agree that going on holidays can be extremely diffcult and there is a time when it becomes impossible, but make the most of the time you can go away, just stick to some rules. Avoid over tiredness, take things slowly and take time for adjustment to surroundings. One thing we have found is if you want to eat out do it at lunch time when tiredness is less of an issue.
Try to avoid overly busy, bustling places as sometimes noise can be a trigger, and a word to the wise, make sure it is difficult to get out of the room, especially in hotels as night time wandering can be extremely dangerous in unfamiliar places.
I would also like to respond to the eating comments. My mum was always a picky eater with little appetite but now eats anything put in front of her with a particular love of all things naughty. I believe in the grand scale of things, it is not something to worry about, plus typically alzheimers patients do burn off a lot of energy as they tend to wander more. I think that if chocolate is something they enjoy, then it's always wonderful to see them happy!
My thoughts go out to all of you but it's nice to know we are not alone.
Hi, this is my first time on the site and it is so nice to read all your posts as I can identify with all of them.
My mother is 60 and was diagnosed with alzheimers three years ago. It has been a fairly rapid decline, and myself and my father have been on a huge learning curve.
In response to some of the issues raised I would always say that it is so important to make the most of the time you have. I completey agree that going on holidays can be extremely diffcult and there is a time when it becomes impossible, but make the most of the time you can go away, just stick to some rules. Avoid over tiredness, take things slowly and take time for adjustment to surroundings. One thing we have found is if you want to eat out do it at lunch time when tiredness is less of an issue.
Try to avoid overly busy, bustling places as sometimes noise can be a trigger, and a word to the wise, make sure it is difficult to get out of the room, especially in hotels as night time wandering can be extremely dangerous in unfamiliar places.
I would also like to respond to the eating comments. My mum was always a picky eater with little appetite but now eats anything put in front of her with a particular love of all things naughty. I believe in the grand scale of things, it is not something to worry about, plus typically alzheimers patients do burn off a lot of energy as they tend to wander more. I think that if chocolate is something they enjoy, then it's always wonderful to see them happy!
My thoughts go out to all of you but it's nice to know we are not alone.