Where do I start, My mum 85 has now has alzheimers for more than 6 years, she is slowly declining.My concern is for my Dad who at 88 is her main carer, he has recently started worrying about my mum if he was to do before her, he is admaent he will never put her in a home, how can i help him see sense and get people in now to help them.He keeps saying as long as your mother says no there is nothing i can do.