I’m feeling at a loss as to what to expect for my mum. She was only diagnosed with Alzheimer’s /Vascular dementia in February this year she’s just 73yrs old. In the summer she was reasonably independent, living alone, walking to the shops, seeing friends and looking after/walking her dog every day. I would do her shopping and drop in food supplies and help with taking her places but I had no major concerns about her.
At the end of September she had a crisis of some kind and started night wandering and a week later I found her confused, hallucinating and completely unable to look after herself. She was admitted to hospital and is still there. Her decline is rapid - we think she’s had at least one delirium while in hospital. She now shuffles around, is hunched over, barely opens her eyes, is lucid only for a few minutes each day, often doesn’t know that I am there and cannot hold a conversation, when she does speak her voice has changed (more childlike). She is having problems toileting and takes no interest in being clean or dressing.
When she was diagnosed by the psychiatrist we were handed the usual dementia information and given our previous knowledge of dementia (my step-grandmother has had it stably for several years, my friend’s father likewise), I feel completely unprepared for this sudden decline and change in her life. Each week the decline is noticeable and I am wondering what to expect and how long she may have left. I know that everyone is different and we may find her plateauing for a while and becoming more stable again but we have had no information about this speed of decline.
If anyone has any knowledge or experience of what we should be prepared for and what we can do for her I would really value your advice.
At the end of September she had a crisis of some kind and started night wandering and a week later I found her confused, hallucinating and completely unable to look after herself. She was admitted to hospital and is still there. Her decline is rapid - we think she’s had at least one delirium while in hospital. She now shuffles around, is hunched over, barely opens her eyes, is lucid only for a few minutes each day, often doesn’t know that I am there and cannot hold a conversation, when she does speak her voice has changed (more childlike). She is having problems toileting and takes no interest in being clean or dressing.
When she was diagnosed by the psychiatrist we were handed the usual dementia information and given our previous knowledge of dementia (my step-grandmother has had it stably for several years, my friend’s father likewise), I feel completely unprepared for this sudden decline and change in her life. Each week the decline is noticeable and I am wondering what to expect and how long she may have left. I know that everyone is different and we may find her plateauing for a while and becoming more stable again but we have had no information about this speed of decline.
If anyone has any knowledge or experience of what we should be prepared for and what we can do for her I would really value your advice.