Hello, I am a new member and would like to introduce myself.
Both my parents in law live with myself and my husband and 25 year old stepson. Mum in law has had Alzheimer's for 7 years now and up to now we have coped but its now getting to much for us. She has her own room in an annex for herself and dad in law (they are married but not been together as a couple for over 30 years) She moved to other side of country until her condition became apparent then we moved her in with us. Dad in law had his own place but due to a mini stroke he also moved in with us and 5 years later is bedridden, doubly incontinent, on 24 hour oxygen and does nothing for himself. He has carers twice a day for his personal care, I do everything else (hubby feeds him twice a day !!)
I have spent time on phone this afternoon to a lovely lady from Dementia people who directed me here and to other possible places who can help and i cried for most of it.
Mum in laws Alzheimer's has now progressed and she now puts anything in her mouth including poo.
She continually has a bad stomach. Yesterday I changed her and her bedding 4 times, I stink as does her room.
I am very tired and cry alot. I am going to visit my mum on saturday for a week to give my younger sister a break from all she does for mum. Mum has untreatable Breast Cancer and on monday we get her results from her biopsy for possible tongue cancer too. (drs 99% convinced she has this)
Sorry I waffled I just need to know there are others in same situation and I am not being a stress head.
Thank you in advance
Both my parents in law live with myself and my husband and 25 year old stepson. Mum in law has had Alzheimer's for 7 years now and up to now we have coped but its now getting to much for us. She has her own room in an annex for herself and dad in law (they are married but not been together as a couple for over 30 years) She moved to other side of country until her condition became apparent then we moved her in with us. Dad in law had his own place but due to a mini stroke he also moved in with us and 5 years later is bedridden, doubly incontinent, on 24 hour oxygen and does nothing for himself. He has carers twice a day for his personal care, I do everything else (hubby feeds him twice a day !!)
I have spent time on phone this afternoon to a lovely lady from Dementia people who directed me here and to other possible places who can help and i cried for most of it.
Mum in laws Alzheimer's has now progressed and she now puts anything in her mouth including poo.
She continually has a bad stomach. Yesterday I changed her and her bedding 4 times, I stink as does her room.
I am very tired and cry alot. I am going to visit my mum on saturday for a week to give my younger sister a break from all she does for mum. Mum has untreatable Breast Cancer and on monday we get her results from her biopsy for possible tongue cancer too. (drs 99% convinced she has this)
Sorry I waffled I just need to know there are others in same situation and I am not being a stress head.
Thank you in advance