Hi,
My mum is in late stages of alzheimer's and has lived with my husband and myself up until 6 months when it became impossible. Mum wasn't sleeping at night and needed one to care to stop her falling, she was becoming aggressive and very agitated. Long story short she is now in a nursing home. Before the onset of this horrific disease mum and myself were incredibly close. Although in the NH she is still agitated when she sees me, (every day), sh calms down considerably.
I was wondering if I should bring her home say once a week and look after her here for the day. I am quite capable of the one to one care, which she gets in nh I'm just concerned the experience will mix her up more and it will be depressing returning to her NH. Mum is very confused and nothing makes sense except when she sees me. She has a lot of short lived lucid moments. Any comments appreciated. Thanks
My mum is in late stages of alzheimer's and has lived with my husband and myself up until 6 months when it became impossible. Mum wasn't sleeping at night and needed one to care to stop her falling, she was becoming aggressive and very agitated. Long story short she is now in a nursing home. Before the onset of this horrific disease mum and myself were incredibly close. Although in the NH she is still agitated when she sees me, (every day), sh calms down considerably.
I was wondering if I should bring her home say once a week and look after her here for the day. I am quite capable of the one to one care, which she gets in nh I'm just concerned the experience will mix her up more and it will be depressing returning to her NH. Mum is very confused and nothing makes sense except when she sees me. She has a lot of short lived lucid moments. Any comments appreciated. Thanks