Hello my mother is 93 and in a care home. She has family members on speed dial on her personal phone and calls us repeatedly, leaving ever more unpleasant messages if we are not available - often ten minutes after speaking with her. We call her regularly and she is always happy and pleasant when receiving calls but believes that we are all deliberately ignoring her when she calls us if we don't respond. It can happen 20 times a day and I'm at my wits end. She denies doing it when asked and says she knows we are busy. Does anyone else know of a similar situation or have advice please. I want to ask for her phone to receive calls only but am I denying her a basic right if I do this?