Sadly family have a tendency to disregard each other. I think caring for elderly parents is difficult and if you suspect dishonesty its a very difficult situation. My sister mistakingly took 26000, from a shared account which we held in our joint names, in case my mother needed extra cash. My sister stated that she pressed the wrong button and took the money, she has had the money since May last year and has not attempted to pay it back or write a letter stating she took it. She has involved her children, i don't know what she has told them but they are supporting her. Her husband is a policeman and he is saying its a mistake and they both get very angry if i say they stole the money. The money is not the issue, because if she had been honest and asked for it she could have used it and paid it back into our account. However the lies and stories they have both told are unforgivable and sadly what she did shows that she does not value her relationship with her sister, brother or her mother. Greed is a very bad character trait and just telling you what happened in my family so that you know you are not alone.
